Playing Catch Up
It’s starting to get real for students! The semester isn’t “new” anymore; early grades are in; responsibilities are piling up; and mid-term exams are looming!
For some, the current status report is not looking good. And, while there is still time to make changes, it’s going to take some effort to turn things around for this semester. How can students play catch up if they find themselves behind in their classes? And how can parents support their students without rescuing them? I’m glad you asked!
Let’s start with parents:
The first priority is to maintain open, honest, and consistent communication.
Second, make sure you have correct information. Are they attending classes? turning in assignments? What is working and what is not?
Third, provide guidance to help your student know where to find the resources they need, then stand back and let them work through the specifics for themselves.
Now, let’s take a look at what students can do if they are struggling and trying to get caught up:
Understand that college is an adjustment, especially for first year students, and it takes time to figure out the best way to live and learn in a new environment. No matter what it looks like, you can be sure that you are NOT the only person that needs help. Here is process to help you catch up:
Step 1: Stop The Bleeding
The first thing you have to do is stop making the situation worse! If you have been skipping classes, start going to classes - ALL your classes. ALL the time!
Prioritize your sleep. Regardless of what has kept you from sleeping well and/or regularly, it’s time to address this issue. Set a regular, reasonable bed time and stick to it. You cannot function well if you are not adequately rested!
Finish all current assignments so you don’t lose any more ground.
Step 2: Assess The Damage
Revisit the syllabus and the attendance policies. Is it still possible to pass the class and get credit? If yes, then make a note of what you need to do to catch up. If no, consider dropping the class.
Make a list of any assignments that you have not completed that you can still get credit for, even if it’s not full credit.
Make a list of all classes that offer extra credit options.
Step 3: Create A Plan
Set a daily schedule with designated study times & places.
Review sources of help that are included in your student fees - writing centers, academic support centers, accommodations, etc.
Ask for help! Find a study group; talk to your instructors; hire a coach or tutor; whatever it takes! Don’t suffer in silence!
Prioritize your work (late assignments and current work) based on the things that will make the largest impact on your grades.
Step 4: Take Action
Start with the first priority from the list. Break it down into multiple steps; complete the first step then continue with the next one until that assignment is complete.
Remember that major projects and tests should always be a priority over missed assignments and make-up work.
When you finish one assignment, move on to the next one.
Continue until you are up to date.
No matter what, don’t give up! There is nothing wrong with realizing that you need to play catch up, but you don’t want to find out what it feels like to stay there. You can do this. Now go get busy!
